You want something that feels special but not shouty, luxurious but not so formal it only leaves the box twice a year. The sweet spot is jewellery she can put on without thinking – and that becomes part of how she looks every day.

Start with the metal. If you are unsure about style, 18k solid gold is almost always a good idea. It has a rich colour, it is kind to the skin and it is built to last in a way plating and fashion alloys are not. Real gold pieces can be cleaned, polished and worn for years.

Next, think about how she actually dresses. The safest route is modern classics. Look for slim shapes, soft proportions and a clean, contemporary line that works with jeans, tailoring and evening clothes alike. If you can imagine the same piece with a white shirt, a dress and a T-shirt, you are in the right territory.

For earrings, small diamond studs or neat hoops in 18k gold are very hard to get wrong. Secure fittings matter, especially screw-back fastenings that are designed to stay put from desk to dinner and on flights.

If she has multiple piercings, a few well-made pieces can build a curated ear that feels current but still looks polished in a meeting room.

Lena Cohen jewellery

This is where independent goldsmiths come in. British studio Lena Cohen Jewellery works only in 18k solid gold with natural diamonds and gemstones.

Pieces are designed for real life, from curated-ear studs and helix earrings with screw backs to slim diamond rings for stacking and fine chain necklaces that sit comfortably with everyday clothes.

Clients speak directly with the goldsmiths when they have questions about fit, piercings or stone choice, and bespoke pieces can be made to order when you want something that feels more personal than a standard collection.

Whether you choose a fine gold ring, a pair of diamond studs or a slim pendant, the aim is simple. You are looking for a gift for her that feels thoughtful rather than generic: real materials, quiet design and the sense that she can reach for it every morning without needing a big occasion. That is the kind of gift that actually gets worn.

Lena Cohen jewellery

Discover more at lenacohen.co.uk